Let me be honest with you. There’s someone who drives me crazy. Her desk is a mess, she never thinks she’s done enough, she likes long stretches of leisure but feels bad about not completing her to-do list. Annoying right? Especially because this exasperating person is me!
On the other hand, I’m really not so bad. But my attitude can be and that’s what I resolve to change for 2015.
When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change ~ Max Planck, Nobel Prize-winning physicist
The attitude you adopt towards yourself, others and circumstances has a huge influence on how satisfied you feel with life. Deciding to make an adjustment for the better is a great choice for a New Year’s resolution because you can start small and make success more likely to happen. But we each have to choose the right place to start.
If you’re not sure where to begin, try asking yourself these questions:
Thinking about these questions may illuminate areas you would prefer to leave in the dark. You might not like what you see, but that’s okay. By now, you may have spotted an area ripe for an attitude adjustment.
Consider joining me on my quest as I resolve to improve my attitude in 2015!
I’ll focus my attitude adjustment on not beating myself up for my real or imagined deficiencies. Of course, I have real shortcomings: I don’t clean my oven more than once every two years, I’m not good at mingling, and I’m bad about returning phone calls. But are these the things that bother me? No! What really bothers me are the little thoughts about sometimes ridiculous little things. For example, when I get home after work, I find the idea of cutting up vegetables for dinner daunting, overwhelming, like an insurmountable obstacle. Then my mind gets whirring and instead of seeing the situation for what it truly is (I’m tired after work), I beat myself up for finding a 10-minute task so dispiriting. This mental self-flagellation isn’t helping me. So I’m going to stop. Right now!
But like many things, changing an attitude is easier said than done. So, let’s start small.
Resolutions are a challenge so focus your efforts to maximize your results. Changing your attitude for the better will reap a very impressive return on investment.
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Andrea Bassett has worked at Shepell·fgi for nearly 11 years in Operations.